Tips

Relationships is not only hard to find but its also hard to keep. It  requires a person to be selfless, and thoughtful. Most importantly, relationships is all about give and take, its a partnership.

Live by this, and live happily ever after:

Know when to say No more!

"The beautiful journey of today can only begin when we learn to let go of yesterday"

-Steve Maraboli

Let me paint  you a picture.

You are in love with somebody that is not committed to you.  It has been this way for a while now and it does not look like anything is going to be changing soon. In fact, it seems like he/she is becoming less and less involved.  He/ she does not care about hiding who else they are messing around with anymore and its taking a toll on your self esteem.

 

Advice:

When you wait, and continue to wait for someone to decide if you are what they need, you not only limit your life, but you are also saying to yourself that you are not important enough to be treated as special as you deserve to be.

So KNOW when to say NO more!!

And take yourself out of that situation and begin your healing process.

Love in the Fastlane!

That 24/7 type of bond. You know! Like when you first meet a person and y'all click right away. And from that day forward, the both of you are working towards a relationship. You guys are either on the phone, texting, or in each other presence at all times.



Not looking too good for the future!

You see, when you attach yourself to a person that extreme, most of the time you tend to miss their flaws. Once you get hit with reality it's to late because you are so attached and in routine that you misconstrue your feelings for love. What you are actually feeling is lust and that person has now become a hard habit to break.

Advice: Take Things Slow! Time only reveals vital information and characteristics of your future partner. You should give yourself time to get to know a person before allowing yourself to become attached.

Do not set yourselves up for failure Ladies and Gents!

It does not Pay to be a Doormat

Flunky!

               Pushover!

                                  Gofer!

• Are you are a people-pleaser?
• Do you feel the need to spoil your boyfriend/girlfriend for his/her time and attention?
• Do you feel its necessary to do any and everything to keep your  boyfriend/girlfriend?

Advice: Love should never be for sale. Its not healthy to con nor bribe a person into a relationship. If a person only likes you for what you could do for them, the relationship is only temporary.

So stop selling yourself short. Find someone you could partner with not someone that will take advantage of your insecurities.