Friday, March 1, 2013

It does not Pay to be a Doormat

Flunky!
               Pushover!
                                  Gofer!



  • Are you are a people-pleaser?
  • Do you feel the need to spoil your boyfriend/girlfriend for his/her time and attention?
  • Do you feel its necessary to do any and everything to keep your  boyfriend/girlfriend?
Advice: Love should never be for sale. Its not healthy to con nor bribe a person into a relationship. If a person only likes you for what you could do for them, the relationship is only temporary.
So stop selling yourself short. Find someone you could partner with not someone that will take advantage of your insecurities. 

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6 comments:

  1. AnonymousMarch 1, 2013 at 5:08 PM

    i agree because eventually you will have everything you want then what else? a relationship where one partner is gold-digging is very temporary.

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  2. OchoDougieMarch 1, 2013 at 8:02 PM

    Every week you come with something real Iesh. I'm a simple guy any way so I'm not sold on what a person can do for me.

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  3. SarahMarch 1, 2013 at 8:08 PM

    Amen! A real relationship relies not on material things.

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  4. Inner Fat GirlMarch 4, 2013 at 9:05 AM

    It is one thing do what you can to make your mate happy but it is a totally different story when you know you are being used. I oftentimes wonder what has happened in a persons life to make them think being used is okay.

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  5. UnknownMarch 4, 2013 at 9:42 AM

    This is your best post yet. A lot of this tends to go on at colleges in general. People constantly misconstrue being a push over and being a good girlfriend/boyfriend.

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  6. JasmineMarch 4, 2013 at 2:11 PM

    This is very true. People have to know their worth and recognize when they are being used. There is a difference from being there for someone and being taken advantage of.

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