Ongoing

Chivalry is not dead; Romance is never over.

 

 



Advice:

In relationships people gets comfortable, and lazy. You must require honesty, respect, faithfulness, chivalry and romance.

Stand for something or fall for anything in your relationship

Remember: If all fails and you not getting what you need out of a relationship; do not dwell leave and embark on your journey to happiness.

 

 

Back Space Delete

Have you ever wondered why everything was deleted?
Suspect isn't it?

NO TEXT MESSAGES...
NO FACEBOOK MESSAGES OR COMMENTS... 
COMMENTS UNDER PICTURE DELETED...
EMPTY CALL LOG... 
ABSOLUTELY NO PROOF OF COMMUNICATION TO ANYONE BUT YOU ALWAYS SEE THEM IN THEIR PHONE...
Now that's Suspect

You are not going crazy!!!

Something is up
Your partner is most likely up to no good

You are probably asking yourself how to approach the situation

Miss Hitch Advice

• Keep Calm and Do Not Make a Fool of Yourself (*very important*)
• Ask your partner if they are hiding something
• If  you believe your partner when they say they are not hiding anything, DO NOT GO LOOKING 
• If you cannot handle the situation of something being hidden from you, BREAK AWAY FROM THE SITUATION

NEVER SECOND GUESS YOUR GUT FEELING OR EMOTIONAL OPINION. YOU SHOULD NEVER WANT TO CARRY ON IN A SUSPECT RELATIONSHIP WITH A SUSPECT PERSON. 

Liars is only Decievers

Why Lie? It only lead to heartbreak.

What happens in the dark, always come out to the light.

Lying is  only a temporary fix

Advice: Mistakes will be made. You are only human. However, its very important how you handle those mistakes. You must tell the truth at the beginning for your partner to get over the bad decision (mistake) you made. Coming clean early creates a stronger  foundation to start over. Lying over and over leads to confusion and lack of trust. You will never be fully forgiven because she/he would not being to believe/trust you anymore.

Tips

Relationships is not only hard to find but its also hard to keep. It  requires a person to be selfless, and thoughtful. Most importantly, relationships is all about give and take, its a partnership.

Live by this, and live happily ever after:

Know when to say No more!

"The beautiful journey of today can only begin when we learn to let go of yesterday"

-Steve Maraboli

Let me paint  you a picture.

You are in love with somebody that is not committed to you.  It has been this way for a while now and it does not look like anything is going to be changing soon. In fact, it seems like he/she is becoming less and less involved.  He/ she does not care about hiding who else they are messing around with anymore and its taking a toll on your self esteem.

 

Advice:

When you wait, and continue to wait for someone to decide if you are what they need, you not only limit your life, but you are also saying to yourself that you are not important enough to be treated as special as you deserve to be.

So KNOW when to say NO more!!

And take yourself out of that situation and begin your healing process.

Love in the Fastlane!

That 24/7 type of bond. You know! Like when you first meet a person and y'all click right away. And from that day forward, the both of you are working towards a relationship. You guys are either on the phone, texting, or in each other presence at all times.



Not looking too good for the future!

You see, when you attach yourself to a person that extreme, most of the time you tend to miss their flaws. Once you get hit with reality it's to late because you are so attached and in routine that you misconstrue your feelings for love. What you are actually feeling is lust and that person has now become a hard habit to break.

Advice: Take Things Slow! Time only reveals vital information and characteristics of your future partner. You should give yourself time to get to know a person before allowing yourself to become attached.

Do not set yourselves up for failure Ladies and Gents!

It does not Pay to be a Doormat

Flunky!

               Pushover!

                                  Gofer!

• Are you are a people-pleaser?
• Do you feel the need to spoil your boyfriend/girlfriend for his/her time and attention?
• Do you feel its necessary to do any and everything to keep your  boyfriend/girlfriend?

Advice: Love should never be for sale. Its not healthy to con nor bribe a person into a relationship. If a person only likes you for what you could do for them, the relationship is only temporary.

So stop selling yourself short. Find someone you could partner with not someone that will take advantage of your insecurities. 

Tarzan Syndrome

Tarzan lived in the jungle. He traveled by swinging from vine to vine. Tarzan could not let go one vine until he secured the next vine to ensure safe travels.

Which leads me to my point:
In the mist of heart break and break ups a person is normally left with the Tarzan Syndrome.

Tarzan Syndrome- When a person can not move on from a past relationship or fling until finding the next. 
The effects of this syndrome is that the person ends up in the same situation over and over again because they haven't allowed themselves to move on.

Advice: An individual should allow themselves to heal from previous heart break before getting involved with a new person.

Valentine's Day: Aftermath!

Valentine's day (V-day)could be full of bliss. However, it could also be full of hurt and confusion for those that didn't know he or she were the "sidechick or sidedude". ITS CALLED GETTING PLAYED! The sidepiece (mistress) would be out shopping and planning V-day as if they are the other person's main piece meanwhile, the other person (THE PLAYER) would be planning for their real mainpiece (Actual lover).

If you are still lost or confused read the following:

• Did the person you plan to spend your V-day with suddenly make an excuse of why he/she canceled plans, but still made an arrangement to pick up his/her gift?
•  Was your valentine's celebration based on sexual relations (nightcap)?
• Did your valentine have other valentines?

If you answered yes to any of these question. 
You have been played!!

Purpose of this blog

Hello, My name is Iesha and I like to think of my self as the Female HITCH
This blog is for those that's having trouble getting or keeping a relationship.
I have a great perspective on romance and relationships. I would Love to Help.
Im here to give advice and coach people through difficult situations.

DONT BE AFRAID TO ASK FOR HELP!!!

Valentine's day is too materialistic

Times are changing, in today's society people are spending hundreds of dollars on valentines day gifts. To me there are better ways to wine and dine your valentine. The key to a successful Valentine's Day is not an expensive gift but to cater and spend time with the person you love the most.